What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence, without a basic type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage takes location on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, delighted state of being. The result is frequently a terrific physical, mental well-being. Generally, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. Although a lot of touch will happen through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The hands of the provider are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Full of attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the technique or the desired sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely surprising course. Whatever suits a larger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in a fantastic advancement.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits in advance
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Activating and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically great, sometimes tasty. We, for that reason, invite you to fully delight in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are many types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and techniques in common. There is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (focused on healing).
Relaxation is a crucial part of tantric massage, however of an entirely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are extremely exhausted), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery results, however that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the short article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer good conditions (physically, however likewise psychologically).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need totally free, don't press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, this review here however a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. However, know that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being aroused is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are very essential! A lot can show up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Enjoying the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. pleasure noises) and provide combination minutes (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't rush towards the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you discover exactly what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a terrific physical, psychological wellness (of both).